Wednesday 4 July 2012

Good news, bad news

Well, we received good news and bad news today. The good news is, we and the other family get to take our babies back to the hotel with us today. The bad news is, our adoption ceremony has been delayed until Monday. We are frustrated with this, but try to focus on the happiness of bringing our babies "home" today. After the call from our adoption rep to verify this is what we want, it is a short amount of time before the nou nou's hand us a bag each with formula, diapers, a bottle of milk, a bottle of water, a face cloth, a toy and a cloth in the shape of an animal with his name stitched into it. The other mother and I cried..it was an emotional moment to be allowed to leave with our babies, but it was emotional also as we think of the nounou's, and the bonds they have formed. It is sad for them and for our babies to say goodbye. Back at the hotel, we tried to extend our stay at the hotel, with some difficulty with a language barrier. So, we called our rep to help us out. For now, we wait until the hotel sees what rooms are available for us to stay now until Monday. We also requested a cot/crib for the room and headed back for his afternoon snack and milk. After some crying, we settled him down. I managed to get him to have some sweet potato graduate stars, some yogurt, a little baby fruit, a nite of a baby rice cracker and a sip of milk. Luckily, he had rice congee before we left the orphanage so hopefully his tummy is full. Ray rocked him to sleep and successfully transferred him to the crib. We will treat him for scabies tonight and then, thankfully, will be free from having to bag and wash all of our clothes. Ray and M have headed off to the pool while baby E sleeps to some Vietnamese music we bought for him yesterday. Now, time for some reading for me! Wish us luck with sleep for tonight!

3 comments:

  1. i'm very happy you can take him with you.

    at first I didn't understand what was scribes...but now i hunderstand in french it 's 'Gâle'.
    You treat clothes with oils, i return earlier in your post to read one more time wich ones.

    Have a good day with your both sons.
    Severine

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  2. You have come so far in the process of international adoption you can handle one more little bump. The fact they let you take Baby E is fabulous. I am back to square one with my journey! I can't wait to see pictures of Baby E! It's wonderful you actually get to keep him with you the whole weekend! Wow! What a relief too to not have to be bagging your clothes for scabies. Is scabies really that bad in the orphanages there?
    Keep up us up to date. I'm checking your blog a couple of times a day.
    Elizabeth

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  3. Happy to hear you have him for the night! How exciting for all of you! Too bad about the delay with the ceremony, it will be nice to have everything finalized!
    Carla

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